Dating




Girls asking guys out yes or no?

Girls asking guys out yes or no?

So a girl this week asked if

Girls asking guys out yes or no?

Well to start off almost every guy would say YES!! YES!! oh please YES!!!

A lot of men actually find it attractive when a girl for once asks us men out. We get tired of chasing sometimes and once in awhile it’s nice to be chased back.
Some guys will think it’s cute, others might be shy due to society pushing men to become more submissive than olden times.

And, yes there are “some” men that do not like or want women chasing them. But rather they want to chase after the women. And, that’s fine too but LOTS of men out there do not chase in fact I know a few men that are so into their careers they don’t chase. So what happens if a woman likes him? Then she has to be the one to make a move and I find women realize how hard it is for men when they also take the leap for once.

Women do have it “some what” easier in the sense that they don’t have to spend the extra time chasing. They can simply reply with a yes or no thank you and can go on with their day.

So, I say if you like the guy and he seems like he may like you, but has not said or done anything and you want him too. Take it from me, it means you might have to take action and take control of the situation yourself. I know tons of women that eventually had to go for it and get the guy they finally wanted! I find a lot of men in business or in busy careers just spend all their time at work and the office. They sort of forget that women may like them and want them to make a move. Some of these men either don’t know how to go for it or just shy away.

I usually tell men to push themselves out of their comfort zone and go ask the girl out. However, I realize not every guy is able to make that drastic of a change and especially when he’s a more quiet and reserved guy who does his own thing.

So women that really think asking a guy out is bad. Well you are definitely wrong, and that most guys actually find it pretty attractive and it shows the girl has confidence to fight and get what she wants. I personally find that trait as a huge turn on and urge more women to go for it.

Remember women usually have it much easier, so why not take that leap for once. What’s the worst that happens he says no? Big deal, it happens to us guys on a daily basis!

But if you want something sometimes you just gotta fight for it.

So ladies go out there and start asking those men out!

Comments

  • CIndy
    Reply

    Ladies do it! I asked a guy out and now he’s my boyfriend!

    it’s totally worth it!

    • Beto
      Reply

      Wow! Great thkgnini! JK

      • K3N
        Reply

        I hope it helped out a lot!

    • K3N
      Reply

      Congrads. I am glad it worked out for you! 🙂

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